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Your wife’s beautiful body…we remind you why she’s an artwork…

You’ve been married for ten years, and think you can draw that body that sleeps next to you with your eyes closed! But can you really? And do you really know how fantastically she was created? Just in case you’ve started taking her body for granted; we’ve plotted a journey that will jog your memory. This is how your wife’s body looks (remember, though, that it’s an air-brushed version, so don’t be blinded by what Photoshop has produced!) and this is how this wonderful piece of art works. If you play your cards right, you’ll definitely get a reaction … exactly where you want it, and what’s more, it’ll make her feel special all over again.

The brain: Not everything happens between her legs! The sensation of orgasm starts between her ears. This is why what you say and do outside the bedroom has such a dramatic effect on what happens inside the bedroom. Never underestimate her brain, or the role it plays in sex. It is a seat of emotions, desires and impulses. It’s where she falls in love and becomes sensual … and if her brain isn’t at the right place, you can try as hard as you want to, her pleasure will be out of your reach …

Her hair: In ancient mythology, hair on the head was a sign of fertility. Sex play with long hair is wonderful, thanks to its texture. You can stroke it, touch her with it and use it in different ways during lovemaking. She also knows the sexual effect it has on you, and this is why she uses it to seduce you. Spoil her by giving her a head massage or simply playing with her hair while she sits in front of you. When the scalp is massaged, endorphins are released which could lead to orgasm, so why wouldn’t you want to take full advantage of this?

Her ears: This is also a hot spot which is often underestimated. As with most extra-genital places on the body, ears are more effective for women than they are for men. If you stimulate her earlobes correctly, she can reach orgasm through manipulation alone. Some women don’t like heavy breathing in their ears at all, so test this method before making it a regular ingredient in your love making. The original function of oversized Eastern or Spanish earrings was to tickle the neck lightly when she moved her head – an erotic sensation by any definition.

Her eyes: The expression ‘The eyes are the window of the soul’ couldn’t be more accurate. Try not only looking at each other but into each other. It’s been said that love mates can experience each other by learning to connect to each other’s souls in this way. Turn the lights down (not completely off), undress and sit opposite each other. Don’t just stare, but look deeply into your mate’s eyes. Take her hands and feel the love between you flow. You’ll score loads of points if you first try and discern her soul before trying to grope her body!

Her nose: Studies done in 1998 and 2006 by Alan Hirsch, of The Smell & Taste Treatment Research Foundation, reported that certain smells stimulate a woman, while others restrict blood flow to the genitals. The greatest sexual reaction was experiences in response to liquorice sweets, cucumber, baby powder, pumpkin pie and lavender. Smells women found difficult to tolerate were men’s cologne (this does very little for the cologne industry!), barbequed meat and candles. Oils known to awaken the sex drive include rose, jasmine, ylang-ylang, geranium and myrrh. And nothing is as erotic as the natural smell of a (clean) body. Ensure you smell good and visit your local pharmacy for a burner with exotic oils that will transform your bedroom into a love nest.

Her lips: Of course you’ve kissed her before. But there’s kissing … and then there’s kissing. A kiss can be an art form in itself. Try and initiate a long, slow kiss by cupping her head in your hands and staring into her eyes for a few seconds. This shows you see and appreciate her. Now use your tongue to slowly open her lips. Let your tongue roll, lick and do circles. Don’t be shy to explore, but don’t ever thrust your tongue so far down her throat that it feels like a tonsil operation.

Her neck: The neck is one of the most erotically sensitive places on a woman’s body. Massage her neck first to help her relax, and then give her kisses right across her whole neck to get her in the mood. Kisses here will make her realise you have something more in mind, and many women have admitted that their mate’s warm, damp breath on their neck gives them goose bumps!

Her breasts. Finally one of your favourite zones! The breasts are very sensitive to touch, especially the area around the nipples, which is covered with touch receptors. Some women can reach orgasm through stimulation of the breasts alone, so ensure you give enough attention to this zone. Begin by touching them lightly, and when her nipples become hard, take it as a sign that she’s ready for further stimulation. There are very few women who don’t enjoy this kind of stimulation, and most will admit that men spend hopelessly too little time on this area. Find out exactly what kind of stimulation your Eve enjoys.

Her back. All of her nerve endings meet at the spine. The most erogenous zone is the lower back and area around the lower back just above her coccyx. Use your tongue to explore the entire length of her spine, and kiss her from the back of her neck right down to her bottom. You can even tickle her, massage her or use your thumbs to apply pressure. A simple back massage will also do wonders to get her in the mood … and from there on out, she’ll be putty in your hands!

Her bellybutton. This is a fascinating part of the human body, and not just a decorative one. It is capable of wonderful sexual sensations! Tickle her bellybutton, drip honey into it before licking it off, use your fingers to play with it and kiss this very special part of her body repeatedly.

Her buttocks. Many women enjoy it when their men pay special attention to this part of their body. It isn’t a sensitive area in the same sense as the nipples or clitoris, and can handle quite a bit more pressure. Many women are sensitive about this area of their body, and spending time here will give her more confidence in this curvaceous asset.

Her clitoris. Just above her vagina is a small opening known as the uterus. Above the uterus is a cape which covers a small pink ‘button’ known as the clitoris. It’s capable of heavenly sensation, and it’s believed it was created solely for pleasure as it’s the only sexual organ with no identifiable procreational function. Women differ as to how they want it stimulated. She may enjoy light, teasing touches or she may prefer firmer pressure. She might like repetitive strokes, or enjoy variation. If you’d like to experiment with this little wonder, draw the alphabet on it with your tongue or finger and you’re sure to hit the jackpot at some point! Remember that she needs to first be turned on before you brave these waters because she’s so sensitive here …

Her mons pubis. Also know as the ‘Mountain of Venus’, the mons pubis is the raised part which protects her pubic area. It is covered with hair and a network of fat cells. Placing pressure on this area with either the palm of your hand or an erect penis will give her lots of pleasure. Many men don’t realise it, but applying pressure here, along with placing a finger in her vulva, can have her saying “ahhh!” in no time!

Her labia. The labia minora is the smooth inside lip of a woman’s genitals, while the labia majora is the fleshy outside lip of the vagina which is less sensitive than the labia minora, although it too can produce arousal through blood flow during foreplay. Take your time here …

Her vagina. If you’ve ever wondered about the fact that some women claim penis size doesn’t matter, rest assured that this is 100% true. The outside of the vagina is rich in nerve endings, while the deeper inner wall is vastly less sensitive. The entrance of the vagina is the most sensitive, and is one of the reasons why size really doesn’t matter.

Her G-spot. Some women and experts believe that the G-spot doesn’t exist, while others insist that there is such an area. It’s believed that the G-spot is actually part of the clitoral network, and that it’s where the arms of the clitoris (which stretch inside) cross each other. It doesn’t contain as many nerve endings as the clitoris, and is less sensitive, but reacts to deep and constant massage-like movements. If you’d like to find her G-spot, ask her to lie on her back, and insert one or two fingers into the vagina with your palm facing upwards. Bend your fingers slightly in a ‘come here’ movement, and feel the wall for a round, sensitive area between the bladder and pelvis.

Her perineum. This is the area between the vagina and anus, and consists of a membrane similar to that of the vaginal lips. This area also contains multiple nerve endings and can also produce heavenly sensation, although it’s often ignored. It’s also sensitive and fragile, so stick to light, feather-like touches. If she isn’t stimulated by this, apply slightly more pressure and use a lubricant to make things easier.

Her inner, upper thighs. This area is often neglected, thanks to its close proximity to the vagina. Try teasing her with light strokes, or cuddle her in this area. Lick and nibble her lightly in this area without actually touching her. This is very pleasurable for her, not only because it’s a sensitive area, but because of the psychological aspect which will have her thinking: “What’s next?”

Her knees. The area behind her knees is an erogenous zone which is often neglected. It sounds strange – but try it. Turn her onto her tummy, and use your tongue to lick her from her lower back right down to her knees. The skin behind the knees is highly sensitive, and although some women find it ticklish, others report that it makes them feel sexy – especially if you stimulate her buttocks at the same time.

Her feet. Feet are capable of releasing huge amounts of pheromones, and you can sweep her off her feet by simply massaging her heels and ankles. Put her toes into your mouth (gently) and suck them seductively and you’ll take her breath away. Not all women enjoy this, but those that do, love it! Otherwise known as ‘shrimping’ , it’s rumoured to be very stimulating. You can also tickle her feet – something that drives many people crazy – or apply firmer pressure.

This isn’t all – the skin is a wonderful organ which covers her entire body. Regardless of where you touch her, it will produce a sensation. Feel free to kiss and caress every centimetre of her body and to discover … and rediscover … so that you never overlook the wonder of it!

I like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
Again and again and again
Kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh… And eyes big love-crumbs,
and possibly i like the thrill
of under me you so quite new

Sources:; The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Pleasing your Woman by Eve Salinger and The Joy of Sex by Alex Comfort